I am currently on hiatus from ongoing one-on-one coaching but am still available for short-term consultations. If you are interested in consulting with me about a specific question or issue, I offer appointments on select Tuesdays. Scroll down this page to make an appointment.
My Expertise
Narcissistic families and relationships involve ongoing trauma that affects every aspect of your health. If you’ve experienced this form of relational abuse and neglect, you need specialized support. As a consultant, I draw from years of research, writing, speaking, and coaching upwards of 500 clients about complex relational trauma. My areas of expertise include
- narcissistic personality disorder
- attachment, emotion regulation, and moral development
- narcissistic family systems
- complex relational trauma
- societal narcissism
I am also a survivor, with understanding and empathy that can only come with lived experience. Whatever your concern or question, I am here to help.
Make an Appointment
Schedule your appointment below. Sessions are 50 minutes for $250. You may choose to have a voice call or a video session via WhatsApp, FaceTime, GoogleMeet, or Zoom. I am based on the west coast of the United States and welcome international clients.
Once you’ve made your appointment and payment, you will receive an email receipt and a second confirmation email with instructions. Appointments are on Pacific Time and you call me for your session. I look forward to connecting with you!
Questions about consultation? Email me at contact@julielhall.com.
Please Note: I am not a trained therapist or legal advisor. You are your own advocate, and I am here to support you with the toolkit I have as an author/expert and empathetic survivor.
Client Testimonials
I was thinking how am I going to tell Julie what our three years together have meant to me. I feel so blessed, it’s beyond words. Through your help I found myself. I’m home.
—Anne
I wouldn’t be here without your help these past three years.
—Zoe, psychiatrist
It has been life changing to work with you. You, your expertise, and your heart for those of us that are fellows in this recovery have been a lifeline over the past few years. Thank you so much Julie.
—Kelly
Thank you for making this broke world a better place.
—Bill
Thank you so much for the unbelievable abundance of understanding and goodness you have brought to my life! You are my hero.
—Jean
I wanted to tell you how thankful I am that our paths crossed. You have helped me in a profound, life changing way that my family is benefitting from. For that I am extremely grateful. Your counseling took the blinders off and has given me amazing clarity.
—Susanne
I’ve gotten more from talking with Julie in a few sessions than I have in 35 years of psychotherapy.
—David
I have to tell you how I just weep with gratitude for you in the lives of our family. My kids are healthier in so many ways. You have given us concepts and language. Self-compassion. Hope. There are probably fewer than a hundred people in the world with your level of knowledge in this area.
—Terri
Since working together I’m much more stable, I don’t have nightmares or panic attacks anymore. You’ve given me incredible support, it’s been so eye-opening. The work we did around being able to listen to my body has been incredibly important.
—Anastasia
I’ve been in therapy on and off for 20 years, and no one said what you’re saying. Thank you so much.
—MaryAnn
I’ve come such a long way in moving beyond this thing that had dragged me down for years, thanks to your help. You are very gifted in what you do.
—Leslie
Thank you for all your help these last few months. You really fast-tracked my ability to understand my father and family dynamic so I could start pinpointing impacts it has had on me. I was in a really desperate state and you helped me out of it and be better equipped to manage it.
—Ashlee
Your help has been life changing. I feel a hundred pounds lighter. I’m on this path now because of you. I can’t thank you enough.
—Steve
Your validation and insights into patterns of NPD behaviors have been extremely helpful, and are now a ‘resource’ inside my mind as I think about what may not be possible in any future contact with my mom or brother. There’s also something about your spirit and energy—this combination of (what feels like) your empowered self with your compassion—that is incredibly moving and inspiring to me. It comes through in your live voice as much as it does in your writing. I hope you will write more. The world needs you. Thank you for traveling with me on my journey.
—Julie
These are life changing conversations. Thank you.
—Nathalie
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your intellect, kindness, and courage.
—S.
I’ve been to so many therapists, celebrity therapists, the Meadows. You’re the first person who has really talked about attachment trauma—you’re doing a pretty good job!
—Dani
Meeting you has been one of the most positive turning points in my life. I’m in so much of a better place thanks to you, your book, and all the strategies you have suggested. I can’t thank you enough for getting me through one of the most stressful points in my life.
—Aislinn
I am doing great, in no small part thanks to the help you gave me!
—Audrey
My friend spoke very highly of your coaching. Now I see why. I’m so glad I reached out to you. I tell everyone about you. You’re like an engineer.
—Denis
No one else has your depth of understanding.
—Evelyn, psychoanalyst
I can’t say often enough how our work together is helping me. It is everything.
—Cory
Julie, it feels amazing. And HUGE and wonderful. I am so excited about the next chapter of my life. Thank you, your support means the absolute world to me.
—Jacqueline
My husband says I’m doing so much better working with you. He says I’m a new woman after our talks.
—Pam
This has been extremely, extremely helpful.
—Olivia
I’ve had at least 15 therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists, and no one helped until you. This is the first time in my life I’ve truly felt validated. Now I know what healing is.
—Caren
The processing I’ve been doing with you this year has been phenomenal.
—Kathryn
You have been a wonderful resource and sounding board this year for me. I so appreciate you.
—Susan
The things you told me were so helpful, they really worked. I can’t tell you how happy and relieved I was.
—Tracey
Julie brings a unique set of tools to the thorny, confusing problem of narcissistic relationships and family systems. Her coaching is based on years of meticulous research, which provides credible, comforting context, but clarity and empathy are what really define her distinctive coaching style. Patient and thoughtful, Julie enabled me at long last to validate my own experience. I can’t imagine a more intuitive, knowledgeable, articulate or gifted guide in navigating the fraught, often crazy-making experience that is life under the sway of a narcissist.
—Leslie
Thank you for everything you have done and are doing for me. You truly make a difference in peoples’ lives, especially the ones who are fortunate to have you as their coach!
—Tim
Your guidance and support have been a life-changing force Julie.
—Chin
Wow. You are so good at what you do. You are amazing!!!!
—Mary
Julie has helped me immensely in processing the fact of and nature of my mother’s narcissism. She listens carefully, and with gentle but laserlike precision narrows in on carefully constructed denials and blindspots, helping reveal the truth. She also listens with strong empathy, and when talking with her I never felt alone or like I couldn’t handle the truth. I appreciate her deep understanding, keen insights, and optimism about my ability to shake the shackles of having been the golden child in my family.
—Sara
I find this so beneficial, so helpful, your explanations and use of language are so powerful. You are better than most therapists.
—Amy, marriage and family therapist
Every minute talking with you is gold.
—Oskar
Julie has been a lifesaver for me. I cant say enough about how she has helped me on my journey to being whole. When we talk I feel like I’m talking to a good friend. With her knowledge and wisdom, she could be charging much more, and I’m so grateful that she keeps her rate affordable so people like me can get help. She is truly doing god’s work.
—Antoinette
This has been extraordinarily helpful.
—Susanna
Having talked with you in such depth, I had a new feeling of lightness of heart. Maybe it was the telling you, a fellow sufferer, that validated my experiences. Fixed something in me . . . ?
—Jan